What's In A Song???

On Friday I worked Ben & Gabrielle's wedding at the White Room in St Augustine. i have to pause for a moment and give the White Room a plug. The food was AMAZING, I can not tell you the last time I ate that well at an event. Thank you!!!

As Ben and Gabrielle were filling out their on line planner I noticed that Ben had selected "Sesame Street" for his mother-son dance. To be honest, like may would be, I was like "OK, that is a new and different one". The version he was looking for though was a slowed down version that was featured in a recent episode of the TV show Scrubs. I researched it for actually several hours and could only come up with clips on youtube that included the dialogue from the show. I finally tracked down the song. Ben suggested an alternate if i was not able to but as most who know me will tell you, i am always determined to give my customers exactly what they ask for.

Fast forward to the mother-son dance....As i announced them to the dance floor Ben's mom as not aware of what song he had chosen. From almost the first note she began to cry tears of joy and it was emotion that I have to believe was felt by all. I thought to myself, there has to be a story behind this song. Later on, after dinner, I spoke to her for a few minutes and asked if she would share with me the special meaning of this song. She went on to tell me that as a child Ben would always want to watch Sesame Street but only if mom would watch with him. Together they would sing the "sesame Street" song as loud as they could and have a great time together. This was the beginning of a special bond between them. She even shared the humorous side of the story with me in that his friends used to make fun of him for "watching Sesame Street with his mommy." Then she said something to me that brought how important my job is to full perspective. She said, "I will always remember you making to effort to find that song for me and my son. No matter hat else happens today, I will never for that dance that we shared."

A few days back I shared what I called my "Master Card Moment" and I have to say this duplicated that feeling. Well, as if that was not enough Gabrielle also asked that I play a song called "Little Italy" for her mom. I played it probably 2/3 of the way into the wedding and as the song began mother and daughter were drawn together from opposite sides of the dance floor almost as with magnets. Together, through tears of happiness, they shared 4 very special moments in time. After the wedding Gabrielle's mom came over, gave me a hug and thanked me for playing that song. She said that while Gabrielle is now too grown up to do so, she would always dance on "mommy's feet" to that song as she was growing up. It was one of her favorite songs and she loved singing it and dancing to it with Gabrielle.

Two songs, one you would probably never expect and one you may have never heard of. While these two songs may not have any significance to anyone else they meant everything in the world to this bride and groom and their mothers. I am so very lucky to be in the profession I am in and look forward to hopefully many more special moments like these.